type of heels

Buying heels sounds simple until you're faced with dozens of styles that all look different but don't always feel different. Over the years, I've noticed many women buy heels based on appearance alone, only to realize later that they weren't the right choice for the occasion. A beautiful pair doesn't always become your favorite pair. Comfort, heel shape, and where you plan to wear them matter just as much.

Whether you're shopping for your first pair or adding another style to your collection, understanding the different types of heels makes the decision much easier. Some heels are designed for long wedding celebrations, while others work best for office wear or dinner outings. Knowing the difference helps you invest in shoes you'll wear again and again.

At Essence by Rubina, every collection is created with the idea that style should never come at the cost of comfort. From elegant block heels to refined kitten heels, every design serves a different purpose. This guide explains the most popular heel styles, when to wear them, and what I've learned from wearing each one.

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1. Block Heels

If someone asks me to recommend only one heel style, block heels are always my first choice. They're the pair I reach for when I know I'll spend hours standing, walking, or attending an event.

The wider heel distributes your weight more evenly than thinner heels, making them much easier to wear throughout the day. Podiatrists commonly point to this same reason when recommending block or square heels over stilettos for everyday wear, since a broader base provides a more stable platform and reduces strain on the feet and ankles. That's why block heels have become one of the most popular choices for weddings, family gatherings, and formal events.

They pair beautifully with long dresses, wide leg trousers, sarees, and traditional outfits while providing the stability many women look for. If you're building your first pair, our block heel collection is a comfortable place to start.

Best For

  • Wedding events
  • Office wear
  • Dinner parties
  • Eid celebrations
  • Long functions

2. Kitten Heels

Kitten heels prove that you don't need extra height to look elegant. Their lower heel makes walking easier while still giving your outfit a polished finish.

I often recommend kitten heels to women who are new to wearing heels or simply prefer something they can wear for several hours without discomfort. They're especially suitable for office wear because they balance professionalism with comfort. Our kitten heel styles are a gentle place to start if you're easing into heels for the first time.

Best For

  • Office wear
  • Lunch meetings
  • Brunch
  • Dinner dates
  • Travel

3. Slingback Heels

Slingback heels have quietly become one of my favorite styles because they solve a common problem. Closed pumps sometimes feel too warm, while sandals can feel too casual. Slingbacks sit comfortably between both.

Woman wearing Lusture pink shimmer pointed toe pumps with comfortable mid heel for weddings, parties and formal occasions.

The back strap keeps the shoe secure while allowing better airflow, making them comfortable throughout warmer months. Pointed toe slingbacks also create a clean silhouette that works well with tailored trousers and midi dresses.

Best For

  • Office wear
  • Formal dinners
  • Business meetings
  • Semi formal occasions

4. Stiletto Heels

Stilettos remain one of the most recognized heel styles. Their slim heel creates an elegant silhouette that's difficult to match. They instantly elevate evening dresses and formal outfits.

That said, I've learned not to wear stilettos for events where I'll be standing for several hours. They're perfect for shorter occasions, photographs, and formal dinners, but not always the most practical choice for long celebrations.

Best For

  • Formal events
  • Cocktail parties
  • Date nights
  • Special occasions

5. Wedge Heels

Many people overlook wedge heels, but they're one of the most comfortable options available. Since the sole supports the entire foot, pressure is spread evenly instead of focusing on one point.

Nude beige platform wedge sandals heels

Whenever I travel or expect to walk outdoors, wedges usually become the better option. They're especially useful during summer and holiday trips.

Best For

  • Vacations
  • Outdoor events
  • Garden parties
  • Summer outfits

6. Platform Heels

Platform heels often look much higher than they actually feel. The raised front sole reduces the angle your foot has to bend into, which is why podiatrists often note that platforms can feel noticeably more comfortable than a standard heel of the same height.

They're a great option if you enjoy wearing higher heels but want additional support throughout the day.

Best For

  • Parties
  • Fashion events
  • Evening wear
  • Celebrations

7. Cone Heels

Cone heels are wider at the top and gradually become narrower toward the bottom. They offer more stability than stilettos while adding a distinctive design element.

Side view of Twilight black pointed toe block heel slingback shoes – Essence by Rubina

They're ideal for women who enjoy modern footwear without choosing overly dramatic styles.

Best For

  • Smart casual outfits
  • Fashion styling
  • Dinner events

8. Sculptural Heels

Sculptural heels focus as much on creativity as function. Instead of a traditional heel shape, they feature artistic designs that become part of the overall look.

These are statement shoes. I usually recommend letting them become the highlight of your outfit by keeping everything else simple.

Best For

  • Fashion events
  • Photoshoots
  • Special occasions

9. Transparent Heels

Transparent heels continue to stay popular because they work with almost every outfit. The clear straps create a clean appearance that allows dresses and accessories to take center stage.

Close up sculpted transparent ribbed block heel and gold metallic footbed on Auryn heels by Essence by Rubina Pakistan

They're particularly popular for bridal events and formal celebrations because they blend effortlessly with different colors.

Best For

  • Weddings
  • Reception events
  • Formal parties
  • Bridal wear

10. Embellished Heels

Sometimes your shoes don't need to blend in. Embellished heels featuring crystals, stones, bows, or metallic details become part of your jewelry and complete your outfit.

In my experience, these styles work best when the outfit itself is fairly simple. The footwear naturally becomes the focal point. If hand set detailing matters to you, look closely at how the stones are applied. Our embellished heel designs are finished by hand rather than machine coated, which is worth knowing before you buy any sparkling pair.

Best For

  • Wedding functions
  • Eid outfits
  • Party wear
  • Festive occasions

11. Mules

Mules are popular because they're incredibly convenient. Without straps or laces, they're easy to slip on while still looking polished.

Model wearing pink pointed toe flat mules with oversized bow in Pakistan

They're ideal when you want something more refined than sandals but more relaxed than traditional pumps.

Best For

  • Casual wear
  • Shopping
  • Weekend outings
  • Travel

12. Pumps

Classic pumps never lose their place in fashion. Their clean design makes them one of the easiest heels to style for both professional and formal settings.

A pointed toe pump in a neutral color is one of the smartest investments because it works with dresses, trousers, skirts, and even denim.

Best For

  • Office wear
  • Business meetings
  • Formal occasions
  • Evening dinners

Which Heel Style Should You Choose?

If comfort is your priority, start with block heels or kitten heels. If you're shopping for weddings or festive occasions, embellished heels and elegant block heels are excellent choices.

Over time, I've realized there's no single heel that's perfect for every occasion. The best pair is the one that fits your lifestyle, feels comfortable after hours of wear, and gives you confidence every time you step out. Building a footwear collection around different heel styles means you'll always have the right pair ready, whether it's for work, celebrations, or everyday elegance.

Find Your Next Pair

Every style in this guide exists in our heels collection, handcrafted with comfort and detail in mind. If you're not sure where to begin, our most loved styles are a lovely place to start, chosen by women who've already found their favourites.

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